tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post718879885396546520..comments2023-09-09T08:45:15.446-05:00Comments on Raising Alyssa: Warning! Bitchy PostAlyssa's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11004459693104286954noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-55367040001057057942009-04-14T07:24:00.000-05:002009-04-14T07:24:00.000-05:00OUCH!Not a good comment to make.Shae, hope he unde...OUCH!Not a good comment to make.Shae, hope he understod how insensitive it is.I've been reading other mommy's blogs with RAD and it really seems to be a common theme-pick on mommy...The very mommy who has to deal with you more, deal with the tantrums etc.Titus 2 Thandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04682041725252115845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-89624908580568941762008-11-14T12:19:00.000-06:002008-11-14T12:19:00.000-06:00I always felt so crazy thinking there was no way t...I always felt so crazy thinking there was no way they could turn off the sweet before Daddy turned out of the driveway. One day it was so bad, I made dad come home, when he got home no one had any idea what I was talking about. I wish I'd heard of blogging back then.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there.annieologyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00795613389857625993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-49265152944317156362008-11-11T22:18:00.000-06:002008-11-11T22:18:00.000-06:00I know how you feel. I do most of the discipline s...I know how you feel. I do most of the discipline so no one really wants to spend time with me. Which at this point, I'm like Whatever! <BR/><BR/>They have little tea parties with Hubs and they talk to him and all I get is "I need this" or "where's my clothes? (dinner,etc...)"<BR/><BR/>Awhile back I had told Hubs that he needed to start disciplining the kids too and being more strict with them. He said something like "what am I supposed to do? Yell at them until they are afraid of me like they are of you?" That hurt. Especially since it was total BS these kids aren't afraid in the least. <BR/><BR/>I find myself wanting to run away from it all too. But I can't because I do everything for Hubs (since he's a quad.) <BR/><BR/>I hate having to start all over too. I can't understand why. <BR/><BR/>I'm probably not doing anything to help make you feel any better but I just had to let you know I agree with you. It sucks!Reighniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03249582936717929919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-55394668166013744732008-11-11T12:30:00.000-06:002008-11-11T12:30:00.000-06:00I agree with Dinah. Alyssa is playing you two like...I agree with Dinah. Alyssa is playing you two like a fiddle. Tara did this. We sat her down and told her we saw through her little show. We told her that if she was mean to one of us, she was being mean to both. If she hugged one of us, she was hugging both...and so on. That, essentially, JB and I were the same person, with the same answer, and she better get used to it cause every time she was going to treat us differently, that she would have to pay the consequences (I forget what these were, something just as weird as what she was doing, this was a few years ago, so I can't remember anymore).<BR/><BR/>Sounds like you two need a date-night (i.e. strategy-session). Our kids are good at wedging in between good relationships. :)Torinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00992090842674056507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-88444169280198588692008-11-11T10:03:00.000-06:002008-11-11T10:03:00.000-06:00((HUGS))Sounds like Alyssa is a master at triangul...((HUGS))<BR/>Sounds like Alyssa is a master at triangulation. <BR/><BR/>I take most of the "stuff" from Little B too. It stinks. It's so hard. And it really can bring a person down. I know. I've been there and probably will be soon again.~Dinahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07473448768301577048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6300639003344420573.post-20760088274275472722008-11-11T09:38:00.000-06:002008-11-11T09:38:00.000-06:00Get in your car and start driving to GA. Would lo...Get in your car and start driving to GA. Would love to have you come visit. You could sit around and eat bon-bons all day. <BR/><BR/>I am sooo sorry Gerri. Consider yourself hugged {{{{Gerri}}}}. Seriously...come on down south for a few days. :-)Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16146320008307628429noreply@blogger.com